You just had break-up with your girl friend. You now feel you want to get back together, kiss and make up and resume the romance.
You tried calling her but she just wouldn't take or return your calls. Do't eat your heart out because you are not alone.Fear not because your are not alone. This is a common situation with break-ups in a relationship. One party realises he/she can't needs the other and wants to get back.
There are 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls. Got that? Yes you heard right.Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?...
Again back to the question you asked yourself "How do I get my ex to return my phone call or messages?"
Youll find the complete foolproof answers and the strategies in a book "The Magic of Making Up System".
BUT...If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship
even more severely than if they never returned your call.It might even go beyoind repair.
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What NOT to Say!
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But first there are some common messages used that almost never get any response or never works. Not only that
using the wrong messages cold actually put you at an aweful psychological disadvantage.
These ineffective messages usually fall into 2 categories:
The PLEA- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Notice what's not right abot the above two messages? Obvious isn't it?
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
*Curiosity and *Self Interest
There's the key to unlock the big SECRET of getting your ex to call back!
Combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
This message raises questions in John's mind "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?"
John will NOT be able to resist wanting to know the answers and at the same time
he feels good because it is a positive message. The message it's not a demand or urgent and he is the potential beneficiary (appreciation)
of the planned meeting. Get the drift?
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly... here's another warning.
Please have an underlying strategy as laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back and you'll have no idea
how to proceed from there. If this happens,unprepared you can do bigger blunder and ruin your chances of achieving a successful making up. It migh even worsen the DAMAGE if you do not handle it correctly.
The simple truth is what you do before, during and after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. That's if you are truly serous about makig up!
Make sense?
This article covers the first step to making up - getting your ex to return your call. But to complete the making up process and restore the lovely relationship you need to apply the whole strategy and that you can find in The Magic of Making Up System a current best seller in this category.
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